The new Dove adverts have got me thinking. Whilst the
statistic that 5 out of 10 girls will quit their afterschool activity due to
low self esteem is both disgusting and shocking, I found myself neither
disgusted nor shocked.
I used to swim a lot, I wasn’t brilliant... I was 10, I was
eager and I really really really liked breaststroke (careful). So why don’t I go swimming now? Why do I
insist on ‘fasting’ or my recent venture into the ‘baby food diet’? Because
swimming requires effort, oh and self esteem. The thought of shaving various
places and then squeezing myself into lycra only to see the entirety of my
community in the pool (the clue is in the phrase ‘community’ pool).
I don’t want to ‘community’ swim. As much as the thought of
there being so many people in that pool, the thought of a gym fills me with
even more dread. The thought of so many people seeing all my flab in all of its
fucking glory whilst I sweat and fall over; hand me a brown paper bag and drive
me the hell home.
I used to do something called ‘street jazz’ too. When I was
hip and young(er), I used to dance like something out of a pop video and call
it ‘having fun’. I did this every Saturday! Looking back, grown up me wouldn’t have
enjoyed the dance moves we perfected (or in my case ruined), they were raunchy
and a little tasteless. It was all a bit too grown up, which we loved, every 11
year old girl aspires of being older.
However, my dancing teacher used to make us say – every
single bloody lesson – ‘I love myself’. Which, bearing in mind she later went
on to have a boob job, was a little ironic. I don’t ever remember believing in
myself fully in that over-oestrogenised environment, but perhaps it benefitted
me. Because, nowadays, the only time I feel like I love myself is when I’m
hammered, and even then there’s a 50/50 chance I’ll just end up crying and
calling myself fat.
So maybe that’s what I need to do, I need to get drunk and
then go to a gym. Get so bloody wasted that I don’t care if I’m sweaty or doing
it wrong. Heck, I’ll just wear my trainers and take a skipping rope next time I
go clubbing (I’ll wear a short skirt and a tie too, so it looks like I’m
dressed up as a sexy school girl).
Someone once said that women would rule the world if we didn’t
hate each other so much. But, following on from my post about Samantha, I think
we just hate ourselves. We just need to accept what we’ve got, because not
doing sport due to your undying hatred of yourself seems a little silly when I
read this.
My name’s Rosie Lucocq, I’m 5’4” a little under 10 stone and
all I really want is to be more toned. So, what am I going to do about it? I’m
going to drink vodka and dance, silly! I’ll send you an invite on Facebook.